Apr 14Why I’m Trying to Never Fly on a Plane Again and Why You Should TooAnd it’s not just because I am terrified of dying in a plane crash — Because I am, you know, terrified of flying. I’ve tried everything to fly better. Drugs, drink, hypnosis. I am here to tell you that, like the song by The Verve, The Drugs Don’t Work. …Climate Change4 min read
Published in Health Management·Apr 14Help Needed Getting Back on the Vegetarian Wagon AgainAfter falling off into unwanted flexitarianism… — Today I was working on the laptop. My partner had returned from work early. We had a quick chat. I interrupted the flow of the conversation to look at my watch. ‘I’ve got to eat lunch’ I said. He raised his eyebrow as Sean Connery used to in James Bond. ‘You need…Healthy Lifestyle4 min read
Published in The Time Rebels·Apr 11“Your Money or Your Life!”For the purposes of this article, pretend I am a deadly highwayman — Picture the scene. It’s 1700 and something. You are travelling in your carriage, one a bit like that picture above. You’ve made good progress. The town is far behind you now. The pair of smartly turned out horses are trotting along through woods. Suddenly, the carriage driver pulls up the…Money2 min read
Apr 9What the Windrush Scandal Meant to My FamilyReflections from a mixed heritage family on generational trauma and allyship — The Windrush scandal, in case you don’t know, was a political scandal that had its roots in the period between 1948 and the early 1970s. The British government encouraged and *invited* Commonwealth citizens to come to the country and help the ‘Motherland’ out as it struggled with post-war labour shortages. …Windrush Generation7 min read
Published in 999 Writer Problems·Apr 9Writing, Me and ADHDDo you have a pacing problem too? Mine is that I go from one hundred miles an hour to a snail’s pace often all in the same day. — Earlier this week I thought I’d sit down to write something. I have a few places I publish to, other projects that are works in progress and sit in my folders. The article I had in mind was for Medium because I want to keep some consistency of publishing here. …Writing Life3 min read
Published in 999 Writer Problems·Apr 5No One Has Read This Article So It Must Be Terrible, Right? Wrong!Notes on how you can deal with the inevitable rejection as a writer and how practising something called fast failure can help — I used to take failure badly. That’s just as well because when I first published this article, not one single eyeball wanted to read it (until I tweaked the title and now it’s viral obv). Anyway, back to feeling a failure. You know, that hot rush of shame creeping up…Writing Life6 min read
Apr 2$0.00 and so Starts a New Writing MonthWhat a clever trick to keep us churning out the content! — When I was a child, I dreamed of being a writer. Aged about nine or ten, Alison Vaughan (where are you now Alison) and I wandered the school playground during our breaks with a hardback A4 notebook. In the notebook, we took turns to scribble sentences of our latest creative…Writing Life3 min read
Mar 30The Tragedy of Ever Trusting A DogI am a dog lover but also a truth-teller because this is so important — Content advisory warning: refers to injury and death I am a huge fan of the species known as the dog. I have worked in boarding kennels and I’ve worked as a professional dog walker. In my home life, I’ve lived with more than ten different dogs, most of them rescued…Dog Rescue6 min read
Published in 999 Writer Problems·Mar 275 Things Writers Need to Know About Kindle Direct PublishingLessons Straight from the Self-Publishing Trenches — I self-published to Kindle Direct on Amazon a year ago. Here are a few things I wish someone had told me beforehand. If you are thinking about taking the self-publishing route too, these tips will help. If you’ve already self-published to Amazon and think I’ve missed anything you’d like to share, do let me know in the comments! Get your content as good as it can be then get an editor and proof-reader anywayWriting8 min read
Mar 24Why Neurodiversity Is Not A Superpower and People Should Stop Claiming It IsA Neurodiversity Celebration Week Reflection From An ADHD Writer — This week is Neurodiversity Celebration Week. I would ordinarily plan to craft a piece that would focus on the positives of being a neurodivergent individual. I don’t want to write a negative article bitching about all the views expressed that I don’t share. But there is this one perspective that…Equality5 min read